I think everyone has a preconceived notion about how things will be when they find out they will be a parent for the first time, I know I did. My wife and I found out just how far off we were on that. At first we were scared out of our minds. All we could think about was how expensive childcare is, how there was no way she would be able to stay home with the baby, and how much this would cut into my gaming. Ok, that last one was just me.